“Dirty John: Narcissism & Control Over Money in Romantic Relationships with Divorce Financial Expert, Lili Vasileff” on Breaking Free: A Modern Divorce Podcast #142

On this episode Rebecca Zung, Esq. and Susan Guthrie, Esq. talk with leading financial expert, Lili Vasileff about the "Dirty John" phenomena and more tales of narcissism and financial abuse in romantic relationships.

The Los Angeles Times series and podcast "Dirty John" is only 7 episodes long but was downloaded over 10 million times within 6 weeks of its release.  It is so compelling it was recently turned into a hit miniseries on Bravo.  The true crime story of a malignant narcissist and the complex web of lies and deceit that he weaves as he seeks to financially and emotionally destroy his victim.  This story may be an extreme, but cases of financial abuse in romantic relationships abound and leading divorce financial expert, LILI VASILEFF, who you have seen on CNN, CNBC, The Street and Market Watch, has seen it over and over again.  Listen to this episode to hear about cases of financial misconduct that she has seen over the years with her clients and most importantly, to hear from Lili how to protect yourself from financial abuse and what to do if you meet a Dirty John! 

To learn more about Lili Vasileff and her firm, Divorce and Money Matters, LLC, please visit her website www.divorceandmoneymatters.com.  To receive a copy of Lili's handout on "Tips for How to Keep Your Financial Information Secure" please email her at lili@divorceandmoneymatters.com.  If you would like to enter the sweepstakes to receive a free copy of Lili's best-selling book “Money & Divorce, The Essential Road Map to Mastering Financial Decisions” please send an email with your contact information to breakingfreedivorcepodcast@gmail.com.  Entries for the sweepstakes will end on May 17, 2019.

If you would like to purchase a copy of Lili's books, please click through to Amazon here.

 

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